20191123, Article, Taichung

[Jasmine0316]

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Time：第 489 會，2019 年 11 月 23 日（週六）下午2:30~5:30
Place：
http://www.happyforum.org/happy/viewtopic.php?t=15

Agenda
14:30~15:30 Session One
15:30~15:50 Speech Session
15:50~16:00 Change Group and then Break Time
16:00~17:15 Session Two
17:15~17:30 Happy Time

Host: Nelson Lin
Assistant Host:

Topic::
A life of purpose
Source:
https://www.ted.com/talks/rick_warren_o ... transcript

Please Note:
Venue:台中市南屯區 大業路182號 Mos Burger二樓
Thanks a lot for your attention.

Questions:
1. Please share the turning points of your life. What’s the relationship between these turning points and your life purpose?

2. What's the power in your hands? How to release it?

3. If you are poor, will you still want to donate money to help others? Why?

4. What is your perception about a life purpose of serving others?

5. Would you like to say something after reading this article (listening to this speech)?


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http://www.happyforum.org/happy/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=1766
週六晚餐(Saturday Dinner)
http://www.happyforum.org/happy/viewforum.php?f=76
戶外活動(Club Outing)

[Jasmine0316]

Dear Taichung Happiers,

Inspired by profound passionate life purposes, we have more respect than thoughts. #Never Done. https://v.qq.com/x/cover/mzc00200y8wqql ... zh3ea.html?

Travel the seas within ourselves to discover life purposes. There are countless stories in everyone’s life; however, there’s only one that matters, only one finally worth telling. We all come into this world with a purpose, what can sharpen our understanding of the relationship between life and meanings? Who cooks up our reality? What makes life more meaningful and purposeful? Taichung Happiers’ best friend Albert Einstein sought the roots of wholeness. “All religions, arts and sciences are branches of the same tree. All these aspirations are directed toward ennobling man's life, lifting it from the sphere of mere physical existence and leading the individual towards freedom.” Life is risky; some things are uncontrollable. We haven’t always had the luxury of living our passion while fulfilling our life purposes. Nevertheless, life is like music. There are pictures in all kinds of music, once you stop to listen. Listen, please! The music is like doors opening, one after another. What strengthens our status, commits us weight? What are the decisive moments that you regard as the milestones of your life? What books have helped you discover your life purpose? What can inspire our confidence and creativity? Are we going in the direction we want to go? Life is full of suggestions; the secret is to know how to read them. Discovering life purpose is a journey, for which, no formula exists. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to join our host Nelson Lin in sharing some room for reflections and the legacy you want to leave.

A life is a life is a life. “If you think nobody cares whether you're alive, try missing a couple of payments.” Discovering our life purposes is a way of seeing, a voice inside. In order to see why we exist, we have to know how to look, and we have to know what we are looking at. German philosopher, poet, and literary critic Johann Gottfried Herder (August 25, 1744 - December 18, 1803) had the simple yet splendid structure of life purpose. “To think what is true, to sense what is beautiful and to want what is good, hereby the spirit finds purpose of a life in reason.” Life is all about vigorous use of time. Having the most intimate relationship with everyone’s life, time is the most sophisticated source we should care deeply about. Every moment is unique; no moment can ever be restated. That’s why we recommend risk-taking, living life to the fullest, seizing the day. Every day is a performance in one way or another. Then, why are we called to do what we are doing? Why it’s only you or your organization can accomplish this work? https://hbr.org/ideacast/2019/04/why-pe ... ed-purpose Not until we discover a life purpose, can we know what hope tastes like. It’s a very amiable awareness, with a great delight in it. Travel the seas within ourselves to discover our life purposes. Whatever circumstances we are in, with various interests and an open heart, everyone has a life purpose of creating personal and social meanings. Although not everyone is one of those people who seem to make magical things take place, on the edge of the sea, nothing feels impossible. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Cr5RRtXw-E Life is about the smoothness of details. It’s the little things that matter. Every little thing is significant. Ultimately, all the little things start to add up. All the little things, all the intersections and contentions, can add up to something stunning and significant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tdvLrX7kr9Y

Choosing the right culture relieves our tired minds. “God gave us the brain to work out problems. However, we use it to create more problems.” When people have the passion to glide high for something insane, it makes other problems seem more outspoken. Despite all the risks concerned, a thing in moving will always be better than a thing recessing; change will always be more honorable than stability. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeG4DikTl3Y Our vision is how we execute our purpose, and our goal is how we execute our vision. Do our best of what we are doing and keep improving it, even if we don’t like it—we’ll get all kinds of ideas planted in our minds—and we’ll be able to establish our goals. It’s like a kind of dance that consists in surrounding and departing-- one step forward and one step back. Perhaps, this can illustrate the true story of the legend, the Pritzker Architecture Prize winner Frank Gehry, who was once a truck driver. https://fortune.com/2018/10/26/frank-ge ... interview/ Life reality is all about choices. Do we choose the right culture? Artists’ pursuit of purpose is the most uplifting. They have sticking points. What they smell, however, is opportunity. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBnVbW362Bs Don’t worry—we never, and cannot afford to—forget creativity. Curiosity is--a trait which should be identified—an essential element for life. What purpose could a person find, if he/she doesn’t have curiosity to light the way? What takes away our peace of mind are our assumptions and unconscious bias, which are inhabited by our fear, conflict, and uncertainty. Encouraging other ways of seeing and knowing, Neuroscientist Beau Lotto reminds us of the height of pure simplicity, the simplicity of sparkling ideas. “Conflict is essential. If we can rescale ourselves and find the impossible in the simple, endeavors like science, adventure, art, and love are not only inspired by awe, but could actually be our ladders into uncertainty—to help us to expand.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17D5SrgBE6g

Happiness couldn’t possibly be called anything other than a bridge. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2o2fRbt-900&app=desktop
Every life is made of inevitable highs and lows--happiness inspires our confidence. Happiness can improve our positive thinking and help assess our performance. Happiness couldn’t possibly be called anything other than a bridge between our internal and external worlds, between a real world and a life purpose. American psychiatrist and author Theodore Isaac Rubin simply put that “Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best.” Now, take a bite of the science of happiness, please. http://totalwellnessmagazine.org/articl ... 0happiness Every life is made of inevitable highs and lows. Such lows exist only in order to create a framework for the highs--there is certainly more of that. The depth of feeling decides the degree of happiness. For example, looking at art for some time can change the way we see things thereafter. Dr. Lasse Steiner at University of Zurich, Switzerland, has more. https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.10 ... 55753-1_18 Paradoxically, life becomes sincerely graceful and purposeful, just when we are not thinking of meaning. We have pursued happiness and mainly flourish in being happy. We could eat happiness like bread. There might not be a measure of happiness left in a life; yet, there could be beauty, humanity, and absolute affection. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUTL4Op56CM

From “The Little Prince” (by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry)

All men have stars, but they are not the same things for different people.
For some, who are travelers, the stars are guides.
For others they are no more than little lights in the sky.
For others, who are scholars, they are problems...
But all these stars are silent.
You-You alone will have stars as no one else has them...
In one of the stars I shall be living.
In one of them I shall be laughing.
And so it will be as if all the stars will be laughing
when you look at the sky at night.

Life is like music, which shows us that we are not alone. “One must live, life’s so short. Vive la diff’erence!” After all, what must a person do but fulfill his/her destiny? Despite the differences, every life purpose lifts us up and lowers us down, only to raise us even higher. Choose to be yourself. Choose to live by your own values. Destiny is always around the corner, and it will grant us a second chance. Life is like music. Life is a study of deliberation; whatever we do well upon and think about accumulates and advances in our lives. Therefore, plant the seeds; change takes time. Be a builder; be the solution. Never forget that legacy exists so long as someone remembers it. Life is like music; mobility is reality. Layers, upon layers, combined, these make some authentic sense. So, what do you think of when your life seems to have more purposes? To what we have focused on—Happiers’ qualities of mind and spirit--a certain kind of appreciation remains in effect, in the end. Be a builder; be the solution. It’s worth suffering for. Most importantly, remember that you are not alone in feeling struggles and pains. Live our purposes, and see our souls. “Stretch”, and, smile! Join us. Thanks!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AzRWLTvl2Po





With Gratitude,
Jasmine

[Kevin01]

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