share~ 人生是自己的

[AliceSu]

人生是自己的

快樂，是純粹自然的產物，
是自己百分百支持自己、肯定自己的禮物
沒有了自我，一切的快樂都是虛偽的假象
即是人家批評你、否定你、攻擊妳，
也不代表你的自我受到否定
唯一能否定你的人，只有你自己


因此，那些經不起人家批評，
人家說一句，就要難過三十天，
人家說兩句就要打人翻臉的人，
事實上是對自己極端沒信心的表現。


當然了！這種容易跟人家「批評」起舞的人，
注定要跟快樂說拜拜
只要有人的地方就有是非；
只要人家有嘴巴，就會有意見和批評
想快樂的人，就不要太「鳥」別人的批評


再者，太在意別人想法的人，不僅不能快樂，
也容易失去自己的特色和個性，
更沒辦法發揮自己的潛能。


總之，嘴巴是別人的，人生是自己的，
有習慣性被人家嘴巴「虐待」的人，


用左腦右腦想一想：
『為什麼我要當人家嘴巴的奴隸？
為什麼要這麼鳥別人的想法呢？』

只要你想通了，你就擁有快樂的自主權了！

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[Breakaway]

I agree with you and actually my emontion is easily affected by others.
I don't really like that feeling, but I cannot control myself. As everyone knows, personality is hard to be changed, since it is born nature.

Anyway, I am trying to change myself, but it is really hard. Sometimes I cannot control my brain to stop thinking that I regret. Listening to music, jogging, seeing movie and reading help me a lots.

I remind myself all the time that there is only one life to go on. I have to make it great, even it is hard to do. " Fake it unitl make it " Hope the transition won't take so long. ha......

[annie_chung]

I agree with you and actually my emontion is easily affected by others.
I don't really like that feeling, but I cannot control myself. As everyone knows, personality is hard to be changed, since it is born nature.

Anyway, I am trying to change myself, but it is really hard. Sometimes I cannot control my brain to stop thinking that I regret. Listening to music, jogging, seeing movie and reading help me a lots.

I remind myself all the time that there is only one life to go on. I have to make it great, even it is hard to do. " Fake it unitl make it " Hope the transition won't take so long. ha......

Good points!
I am the same with you.
Hope we will challenge ourselves and achieve the goals we set.